Frequently Asked Questions
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1. Is this for someone who has just found out, or for those of us who have been living with knowing we’ve been married to a child molester?
Take Charge and Move On is perfect for all women who have been married to a child molester or have been the “significant other” of a child molester. It’s not much different to find out your “boy friend” has been molesting children than if you were married. The deception and the hurt is very similar. And it doesn’t depend on whether you just found out or have been living with your pain and upset for quite some time. Each week’s lesson is broken down into manageable steps for easy application. There are also “advanced” insights that seasoned veterans will find helpful to break through issues and habits that have been ingrained.
2. Does this work for any woman in this situation?
Absolutely! Each participant will take away from the lessons the learning and the changes you need to make for yourself. Some of the material may go over your head at first, especially if you are really hurting. Not to worry. You’ll have a lot of opportunities to go back, review and revise how you are using the lessons to help you move on.
If you have been living with this for some time and have already done some work on feeling and doing better. you’ll get the tools and strategies to help you finish up and get more joy and satisfaction out of your life.
Of course there will be plenty of information for both younger and older women. Often you will have different needs or concerns as your life circumstances or stages progress. This is not to say you can’t still have a satisfying and fulfilling life.
3. Are there any “hidden costs” in addition to my membership fees?
No. It is all included. There are a few resources that will be suggested but they are suggestions not necessities.
4. Does my membership include personal coaching?
Unfortunately, the answer is “no”. While I will always be available to handle support requests (i.e. I can’t download this week’s lesson) I simply don’t have the time to personally coach each of the members. Even if every member just asked ONE question (even a simple question) it would be impossible to handle all of the requests. There just isn’t enough time in the day.
Having said that, I will read and consider every question that comes in and insure the answers will be reflected in the emails you receive, the unadvertised bonuses or the lessons themselves.
5. Do I have to commit to the entire 9 months?
Of course not. While I don’t think you’ll want to do so, you may cancel anytime you want. You may email me using the link at the bottom of this page for a prompt and courteous cancellation. Like I said, I don’t think you’ll want to do so after diving in to the training!
6. How quickly will I start seeing results, start feeling and doing better?
That will depend entirely upon you. Someone who has already been doing a lot of work on getting over the pain and anguish may make progress more quickly. A newbie, a woman who just found out, may take a little longer. Most people are somewhere in the middle. So the answer is 1 day to 1 month, depending upon where you are in moving on from the initial shock and pain of finding out.
7. It’s only one short article each week, can I get something out of it that will make a difference?
You bet! In fact, many participants say they start feeling better right away just knowing they’re taking action. Others who have been struggling quite a while and have tried many other resources have said they feel like they’re coming home. Finally they’ve found someone who understands, has successfully gone on with her own life, knows how to help others and can quickly help her finish the process she’s already started.
8. On what day of the week will I receive my weekly emails?
There isn’t a set “day” of the week when lessons will arrive to your inbox. The autoresponder is setup to send out your lesson approximately every 7 days. (Sometimes there is a 24-48 hour difference in delivery but you’ll always receive a lesson each week.)
If you have any other questions or comments that might be beneficial to visitors of the site (and yourself, of course!) please email me at the address below.
So, if this answers your questions and sounds like what you have been waiting and looking for, let’s get started right now. Just click here to start getting the help you want and need today.
Best regards,

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